Wednesday 12 December 2012

Ibadah umrah bg penutup tahun 2012...

        Nak cerita sikit pengalaman balik dari menunaikan ibadah Haji. Terima kasih tak terhingga pada sahabat hubby ku yg dtg ke riyadh atas urusan kerja sudi menengok-nengokan anak2ku. begitu juga neighbour ku yg baik hati. Hanya doa kupanjatkan utk kalian semua. Semoga Allah memberkati dan murahkan rezeki mera di unia dan akhirat. Amiin...
        
        Balik dari menunaikan haji, kami suami isteri demam dan batuk selsema. seminggu bertapa di rmh. Yg pelik nye semasa di sana alhamdullillah Allah berikan kekuatan yg luar biasa. Memang ada kepenatan mcm semasa di Arafah, duggan yg datang. Allahuakhbar.  Penat mmg penat sebab tenaga banyak dihabiskan dengan berasak2 kerana mengejar waktu untuk bermabit di mudzalifah separuh malam. semua jemaah berpusu-pusu kerana waktu menghampiri separuh malam. nnt kalu tak sempat dikenekan dam. Bayangkanlah, semua jemaaah haji seluruh dunia perlu beredar dari Arrafah selepas maghrib. dan Maghrib pada ketika itu dlm pukul  5.30pm. Bayangkan kami mununggu dgn berdiri back to back dari pukul 5pm sehingga pukul 11/12 tgh malam baru naik train. Esoknye nak pergi melontar di mana semua jemaah menuju pada satu tempat dijamrrah pada waktu yg ditentukan.  Baru lah ku terpikir sebelum ni org kata baik buat haji waktu muda sebab ada tenaga. Tanggapan itu meleset bg ku. Semasa disana, yg bawak anak kecik, yg tua tenaga nye mashaAllah, aku pun terkesima. Ada peristiwa yg berlaku pada diri ku, semasa on da way jalan kaki setelah selesai melontar pada 10 zulhijjah, perjalanan dari jamrrah ke masjidillharam lebih kurang 6km. Torowong jalan kaki menghala ke masjidil harram penuh dgn ribuan/ jutaan manusia. kaki ku dan suami dah tak tahan. suami ada suggest nak naik wheelchair tak atau naik motor. mmg ada org tempatan buat service sewa motor or wheelchair. tp dia org la bawak n tolak. Itulah Allah tu Maha berkuasa, Dia nak tunjukan sesuatu kepada aku dan suami, tiba tiba, entah dari mana, seorg hamba Allah ni melintasi kami dgn cergasnya. Aku hampir menitis air mata. kami berpandangan sambil mulut beristighfar dan ber zikir. Ya Allah,  hamba Allah itu jalan bertongkat dgn sebelah kaki. Dan hamba Allah itu tidak lah muda berbanding dgn kami. Mmg bila kita sampai di sini aura tenaganye lain. kenkadang yg muda pun tak larat, yg tua sungguh bertenaga. MashaAllah, Subhanallah..Allahuakhbar.

        Ok lah. Kebiasaaan nye selesai musim haji, masjidil haram akan lenggang setelah semua jemaah pulang ke negara masin-masing. Dengan peluang keemasan ni, kebyakan kami rakyat melasia di Saudi pergi menunaikan umrah antara bulan 11-bulan 1. Bukan malaysian je org tempatan pun ambil peluang masa ni. lagi pun Kota mekah akan tutup untuk org luar mengerjakan umrah untuk beberapa bulan. hanya dibuka untuk penduduk tempatan sahaja. Kebetulan pulak masa ni pembesaran masjidil harram baru dimulakan. InshaAllah plan kami nak bawak parents in law n family ku datang Saudi tahun 2014 selepas musim haji. Sambil tu boleh kami semua buat umrah bersama dlm keadaan lengang sikit. InshaAllah.

         Hmm...Oleh kerana semasa kami menunaikan haji, anak2 tak ikut so kami plan ke Mekah untuk umrrah. Sebelum ni hubby ku drive, tp tak larat so naik flight kali ni. Saudi airline dah booked begitu juga hotel. kami booked hotel Safwah dengan pemandang kaabah.Sepanjang mengerjakan umrrah kami mmg suka ddk hotel ni sbb dekat n untuk kemudahan anak2. Alhamdullillah. rezeki anak2.  

lintas lansung dari masjidil harram.....


View dari bilik hotel kami...







Us




Friday 30 November 2012

Alhamdullillah....The Big Day Hajj 1433/2012

Alhamdullillah, syukur tak terhingga ku panjatkan kepada Mu Ya Allah...tak dapat nak teruskan menulis, sebak rasanye hati ini tanpa ku sedari air mata ini mengalir... walau pun telah hampir sebulan berlalu. Banyak dugaan dan pahit dan manis... Hanya ingatan ibadah kerana Mu dan gambar yg dpt diluahkan...Subahanallah...Ya Allah..terima la amal ibadah hambu mu yg serbakekurangan ini....jgn la jadikan ini pertemuan terakhir bagi ku..aku amat merindui saat nya Ya Allah...permudahkan la urusan ku sekeluarga dan seluruh umat islam di dunia dan akhirat..AMEEN...

Date : 6 Dzulhijjah - 13 Dzulhijjah 1433  
22 October - 29 October 2012  
Riyadh - Mekah Al Mukaramah  
Haji Ifrad 



ID Banduntuk naik train- only for  Saudian
ID tag in Mena for Saudian

Bismillahirrahmannirrahim...The journey begin...Depart from Riyadh to Mina by Bus

Waiting for the bus to Mena after done with tawaf Qudum

Arriving at destination our camp in Meena for 8 days

Tasyrikh Haji for Saudian. As a residence in Saudi Arabia also need a permit to perfom Hajj

Solat di Mina bersama rakan2 Malaysia di Riyadh. Satu pengalaman dimana solat di atas jalanraya with jemaah haji dari pelbagai bangsa dan negara

Sebelum ke Arafah

Hari Wukuf..nak bertolak ke Arafah....berdebar-debar...
As a sepanduk ,Bendera Malaysia untuk rakyat Malaysia di Riyadh, Saudi

Labbaikallahummalabaik.... Menunggu turn naik train @ station Mena 1 ke Arafah

Alhamdullillah selesai Ibadah Wukuf di Arafah waiting for train to mudzalifah for Mabit...run-down faces but still smilling  after standing for almost 5-6 hours and almost got crushed by the crowd.. Hanya Allah yg tahu perasaan masa tu..

Beratur untuk naik train dari Arafah ke Mudzalifah. Part of the crowd after 6 hours. can u imagine the crowd before. and this only one part of the station. there are 4 stations nearby and to catter all the jemaah in one shot to the next rukun bermalam di Mudzalifah. Suddenly from no where, jemaah without pass trying to get into the train...ada yg fainted, ada yg keguguran, anak2 menagis, yg tua keletihan dan sesak nafas.  Allah tunjukan dugaan kecik di dunia . Bagaimana di padang masyar nnt... subhanAllah...

View from station Arafat 1, Managed to capture Masjid Namira di Arafah.


Perjalanan Melontar Jamarah Aqabah 10 zulhijjah @ fajr 6am
 View dari Jamarat 4th floor..The crowd on 10 Dzulhijjah fajr


menuju Harram dari Jamrah level 4 for Tawaf Iffadah
Alhamdullillah, done with tahlul awal..menuju Harram for Tawaf Iffadah


On da way to Masjidil Harram..walking all da way from Jammarat melalui Pedestrian turnel (terowong Muassin) ..it takes about 2 hours walking until reached Masjidil Haram

In da train on da way to Mabit..

Mecca Metro Station
View Jamarat



11 Dzulhijjah melontar 3 Jamrah...after zuhur..

12 Dzulhijjah melontar

after zuhur..

Selesai melontar on
13 zulhijjah



Alhamdullillah syukur pada Mu, kerana dapat menunaikan rukun islam ke5 pada usia yg muda. Selesai sudah ibadah Haji. Semoga ibadah ku diterima oleh Nya..Amiinnn

Tuesday 20 November 2012

Hajj 1433/2012 Preparation.....

Perjalanan haji ku...
Ya Allah sesungguhnya hamba mu banyak melakukan dosa. Niat menunaikan haji telah lama kupendam. Aku pernah mengirimkan doa kepada seseorg mengerjakan haji pada tahun 2010. Salah satu doa nye semoga aku dpt menjejak kaki di tanah haram menunaikan ibadah haji dlm ms muda. Dalam pada ms yg sama, Alhamdullillah suami ku except tawaran setelah negotiate dgn pak arab. Aku pun berdoa semoga ku diberi peluang dan kuat semngat mengikut suami berada diperantauan mencari rezeki. Satu yg kutanam dalam hati ini, walaupun first time dlm hidup ku ini kali pertama aku berjauhan dr family. Aku tak pernah berjauhan yg paling jauh pun shah alam uitm masa blajar ddk rmh sewa. Tp sorg isteri ada lah disisi suami, aku mengikuti nye. Semuanye ada hikmah. Mcm2 berlaku di ofis sblm ku berhijrah. Alhamdullillah Allah itu Maha mengetahui. Dan hati ku ini berkata ya Allah ko telah dekatkan ku dgn rumahmu. Hambamu ini yg tak layak yg selalu alpa dgn perintahMu.
Alhamdullillah dengan izin Allah, kami mendaftar haji menggunakan quota saudi bg rakyat melaysia di bumi ambia ini. Disinila bermulanye perjalanan haji ku dr sebelum dan selepas.
Walaupun hampir tiap2 bulan ku mengunjunggi baitullah menunaikan umrah, tp hati ini tak sama seperti hendak menunaikan haji. Ya Allah, Dia yg Maha mengetahui hati ini yg sentiasa berdebar2. Sepanjang masa ku berdoa semoga dipermudahkan segala urusan sebelum, semasa dan selapas ibadah haji.

Banyak aku kene fikirkan, ibadah ku, dosa2 yg ku lakukan antara manusia sedar dan tak sedar, kealpaan ke dengan perintahmu. Semuanye aku harus setlekan dahulu. Alhamdullillah fidyah telah kulangsaikan. Solat taubat, istikharah, hajat, memohon maaf kepada org tua ku n mertuaku dan semua yg mengenali diri ini. Semua ni sebelum ku bwrangkat pulang ke saudi selepas beraya di Malaysia. Tp semua ni kene berterusan.
Masalah seterusnye pula aku dan suami pada mula nk bwk 2 org anak bertuah ni, suami melakukan solat istikharah memohon berikan petunjuk. Aku tidak melakukannye sbb aku mmg yakin nak bwk diaorg. 2 minggu berlalu, masih tidak dpt petunjuk. Oleh kerana suami berat nk bwk sbb mereka pun tak nk ikut, mcm2 plan.  Aku mengajaknye solat istikharah sesama. Alhamdullillah member husband yg bujang dan baru je dtg ke Riyadh sanggup bermalam dan ddk sementara di rumah ku dan; sudi menjaga our sons. Suami ku berasa lega, tp dlm hati ada rasa terkilan mungkin hajat utuk bw parents dia tak dpt sbb visa tak approved memandangkan kerajaan arab saudi freeze sementara visa melawat sbb musim haji krn mereka takut ada yg buat haji secara illegal.Lagi pun PIL pun pernah menyuarakan hasrat tuk dtg sini. Don't worry In Shaa Allah ada ms lagi. Mungkin masa ni tak sesuai n tak nk menyusahkan mereka. Allah tu Maha mengetahui.


So kursus haji kami hadiri di Embassy Malaysia pada 4 october oleh Ustaz Dr. Hassan, Mutawwir di Saudi. Kami akan bertolak pada 22 Oct selama 10 hari. Kami melakukan Haji Ifrad. Nota kubaca, buku kiriman sahabat ku Hafizah Sith turut ku baca bg menambah ilmu. Terima kasih Fiza. Hanya doa ku panjatkan utk fiza sekeluarga.
2 minggu sebelum bertolak, adalah masa intensif. Aku mengharapkan haji mabrur. In Shaa Allah. Walaupun org kata kira ddk saudi ni mudah buat haji, tp jika tidak diizin olehNya, tak dpt juga. Ada juga kengkawan yg dah lama kat sini masih tak berpeluang sbb beberapa halang. Dimana sahaja kita berada Allah itu satu, setiap org ada rezeki , cume cepat dan lambat. Haji bukan seperti umrah. Dari pengalaman member yg dah menunaikan haji, dugaan haji amat la besar. Sebab itu kita kene sentiasa berdoa supaya ibadah yg dilakukan kerana Allah dan diterima olehNya.
Nota ringkas dari Ustaz Hassan sgt ringkas tp mudah dan padat. Senang difahami. Nnt sapa2 nak buat rujukan bagitau la.
Doa2 mula dikumpulkan. Kelengkapan pun di packing sedikir demi sikit.

Makan2 sempene akikah Hazim, farewell utk Ruzie, Nana, Kak Na and Kak Nora & doa selamat sempene aku dan suami utk menunaikan fardhu Haji..

Actually dah lama dah acara mkn2 ni. It was 19th October 2012. All in One...:) Me n Hubby akan menunaikan rukun Islam ke 5 tahun ni.In Sha Allah. Kami ikut package Arab. Tp utk org Malaysia sume urursan dikendalikan oleh Ustaz Dr. Hassan iaitu satu2 nye org Malaysia yg jd Mutawwir di sini. Sini pun kalu nk g haji bukan blh buat sendiri. pastu ada quota gak 4/5 thn sekali. Sama je rupanye kat mana2.   Next entry nnt akan dicerita all about my Hajj 2012. In Sha Allah.
So attached gambar je la..Kak Na, Nana, and Kak Nora akan back for gud dah. Ruzie plak berhijrah ke Qatar setelah 4 tahun di Riyadh. Nana dah 10 thn kat Riyadh, Kak Nora 7 tahun and Kak Na baru 4 bulan. So gonna miss them..Ni sume satu building appartment di Riyadh. Bak kata pepatah, patah tumbuh hilang berganti...3 org back for gud, 3 family datang ke bumi Riyadh and stay at our building...
Sempat amik group photo jer, makanan lupa da..sbb served nasi mandi kambing..hehe..

Sunday 14 October 2012

Redbull stratos- Misson to the edge of space...


Today at 3.30 pm riyadh time watching Skydiving Live at MHD Action channel OSN or live webcast of the Red Bull Stratos at http://www.redbullstratos.com.

Serba sikit about this mission:

Red Bull Stratos is a mission to the edge of space that will try to surpass human limits that have existed for more than 50 years. Supported by a team of experts, Felix Baumgartner will undertake a stratospheric balloon flight to more than 120,000 feet / 36,576 meters and make a record-breaking freefall jump in the attempt to become the first man to break the speed of sound in freefall (an estimated 690 miles / 1,110 kilometers per hour), while delivering valuable data for medical and scientific advancement.

Monday 24 September 2012

Rutin harian...

Salam. Saje lama tak update blog sbb kemalasan melanda. Refer to above title, rutin harian. Alhamdullillah. Seperti biasa pagi bgn basuh kain, lipat kain, pastu buka tv tgk raacuun or food network. Yes food network dah mcm jd fav channel. Pastu siapkan haziq nk g skul than abis sume tu pikir nak msk pulak. Hmm about me ni kalu bab msk mmg huhuhu.. Kenkadang lagi payah masak dr keje kat opis..hehe. Pas msk kemas dapur.. Hmm begitula setiap hari. But now i'm happy.

Oh ye InshaAllah tahun ni me n hubby akan mengerjakan ibadah Haji. Next post inshaAllah ceritakan on our preparation on our Hajj n the journey. Ok la ari ni mcm terasa nak msk sup daging. N esok nak buat soto sbb hubby nak ajak member dia yg br dtg from mesia dinner.
Wokey till than....da

Saturday 8 September 2012

Puasa 6... Day 4

Mango salad, beef soup ,asparagus with white mushroom and for dessert kuih badak berendam menu for today ifttar:)) nyummmmmnyummm

Saturday 4 August 2012

HERBALIFE..:))

its not a new product for me. dah lama member ku Fadzlun join n hasilnye mmg memberangsangkan. Tp disebabkan masa tu tak de la urgency nye so buat tak tau je la.. hehe lagi pun as for me my weight still normal. cume dulu kurus sgt ms blajar.
tp skrg tujuan amik ni sbb my eczema yg ku hadapi ni come n go. dah kahwin baru dpt eczema ni. masa bujang dulu tak de la pulak. maybe bila dah kahwin ni change in hormon.
Since kat ofis baru2 ni ramai la pulak pengguna HL ni so senang la nk order. nak order kat fadzlun mcm jauh n mls la pulak nk g amik or sian kat dia kene dtg. so yg dekat dah ada hmm order je la. save masa. tp kita takde la nk amik shake sume tu. as for me my purpose taking HL to reduce my eczema. nak try pulak guna HL. so amik la tea mix.baru cuba 2 minggu. ok rasa pun boleh tahan. so kita hanya ikhtiar yg selebihnya kita berserah pada yg Maha Esa. InsyaAllah.

so ni lah dia ghopanye tea mix tuk menyahtoksik didlm badan. InshaAllah.

15 Ramadhan..✨🌙

Alhamdullillah.. pejam celik.. dah abis fasa 2 n nak msk fasa ke 3. syukur alhamdullillah. kebetulan semalam 15 ramadhan aku meneman ibu ku ke surau tuk terawih. ni kali kedua ke surau. yg first masa 1st day posa. hubby ku kata tak yah la buat terawikh kat surau di suruh buat kat rmh sbb perempuan. so ok alhamdullillah buat kat rmh.
Kebetulan semalam di surau adalaj turn tahlil tuk abah. rezeki ku. huhu abah rindu. dah 16 tahun abah pergi iaitu pada 30 Aug 1996 bersamaan hari jumaat. semoga roh abah dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama2 org yg beriman.

Monday 30 April 2012

How to Raise a Responsible Child

Wife sudah now for children...this article was taken from ahaparenting.comparenting.com.

We all want to raise responsible children.  And we all want to live in a world where others have been raised to be responsible, a world where adults don’t shrug off their responsibilities as citizens.  As my son said, surveying the littered park when he was three, "Don't grownups know they have to clean up their own messes?"- Dr. Laura Markham

So how do we raise our kids to take responsibility for their choices and their impact on the world?

Children don't want just to be doted on.  They need, like the rest of us, to feel like they matter to the world, like their lives make a positive contribution. 
Children need to see themselves as response-able -- powerful and able to respond to what needs to be done.  They need this for their self esteem, for their lives to have meaning, and also so they'll learn to handle themselves responsibly in the world.

The bottom line is that kids will be responsible to the degree that we support them to be.  Here, 14 everyday strategies guaranteed to increase your kids’ “response-ability” quotient.

1. Teach that we always clean up our own messes. Begin by helping your child, until she learns it.  She'll learn it faster if you can be cheerful and kind about it and remember not to worry about spilled milk.  Encourage her to help by handing her a sponge as you pick one up yourself, even when it's easier to do it yourself. (And it’s almost always easier to do it yourself.) As long as you aren't judgmental about it--so she isn't defensive--she'll want to help clean up and make things better.
So when your toddler spills her milk, say "That's ok. We can clean it up," as you hand her a paper towel and pick one up yourself.  When your preschooler leaves her shoes scattered in your path, hand them to her and ask her to put them away, saying kindly "We always clean up our own stuff."
You will have to do this, in one form or another, until they leave your home.  But if your kids learn early that "Everyone is responsible for their own messes,” they will not only be easier for you to live with, they will be better citizens of the world.

2. Kids need an opportunity to contribute to the common good. All children contribute to the rest of us in some way, regularly.  Find that way and comment on it, even if it is just noticing when she is kind to her little brother or that the rest of the family enjoys how she’s always singing.  Whatever behaviors you acknowledge will grow. 
As your children get older, their contributions should increase appropriately, both within and outside the household.  Kids need to grow into two kinds of responsibilities: their own self care, and contributing to the family welfare.  Research indicates that kids who help around the house are also more likely to offer help in other situations than kids who simply participate in their own self care. 
Of course, you can't expect them to develop a helpful attitude overnight.  It helps to steadily increase responsibility in age appropriate ways.  Invite toddlers to put napkins on the table,  three year olds to set places.  Four year olds can match socks, and five year olds can help you groom the dog.  Six year olds are ready to clear the table, seven year olds to water plants, and eight year olds to fold laundry.

3. Remember that no kid in his right mind wants to do "chores."  Unless you want your child to think of contributing to the family as drudgery, don't "make" him do chores without you when he's little. Your goal isn't getting this job done, it's shaping a child who will take pleasure in contributing and taking responsibility.  Make the job fun.  Give as much structure, support, and hands-on help as you need to, including sitting with him and helping for the first thirty times he does the task, if necessary.  Know that it will be much harder than doing it yourself.  Remind yourself that there's joy in these tasks, and communicate that, along with the satisfaction of a job well done. Eventually, he will  be doing these tasks by himself.  That day will come much faster if he enjoys them.

4. Rather than simply giving orders, try asking your child to do the thinking.  For instance, to the dallying child in the morning, instead of barking "Brush your teeth!  Is your backpack packed?  Don't forget your lunch!," you could ask "What do you need to do to get ready for school?" The goal is to keep them focused on their list, morning after morning, until they internalize it and begin managing their own morning tasks.

5. Provide routines and structure.   These are crucial in children’s lives for many reasons, not the least of which is that it gives them repeated opportunities to manage themselves through a series of not especially inviting tasks.  First, they master the bedtime routine and cleaning up toys and getting ready in the morning.  Then they develop successful study habits and grooming habits.  Finally, they learn basic life skills through repetition of household routines like doing laundry or making simple meals.

6. Teach your child to be responsible for her interactions with others.  When your daughter hurts her little brother's feelings, don't force her to apologize.  She won't mean it, and it won't help him.  Instead, ask her what she can do to make things better between them.  Read him a story?   Help him with his chore of setting the table?  Give him a big hug?  This teaches children that their treatment of others has a cost, and that they're responsible for repairs when they do damage.

7. Hold your kids accountable for damaged goods.  If kids help pay for lost library books and cell phones, windows broken by their baseball, or tools they've left out to rust from their 
own savings, the chances of a repeat infraction are slim.

8. Don’t rush to bail your child out of a difficult situation.  Be available for problem-solving, helping him work through his feelings and fears, and to insure that he doesn’t just sidestep the difficulty, but let him handle the problem herself, whether it requires offering an apology or making amends in a more concrete way.

9. Model responsibility and accountability.  "It's a pain to carry this trash till we get to the car, but I don't see a trashcan and we never litter.”  “This sign says parking is reserved for handicapped people, so of course we can't take that spot."   Keep your promises to your child, and don't make excuses.  If you don’t follow through when you promise to pick up that notebook he needs for school, or play that game with him on Saturday, why should he be responsible about keeping his promises and agreements?

10. Never label your child as "Irresponsible," because the way we see our kids is always a self-fulfilling prophecy.  Instead, teach him the skills he needs to be responsible.  If he always loses things, for instance, teach him to stop anytime he leaves somewhere -- his friend's house, school, soccer practice -- and count off everything he needs to take home.

11. Teach your kids to make a written schedule.  It may seem like overkill, but in our busy 21st century lives, all kids need to master this skill by high school, or they simply won’t get everything done.  Begin on weekends during middle school, or earlier, if their schedule is busy.  Just take a piece of paper, list the hours of the day on the left, and ask your child what he needs to get done this weekend.  Put in the baseball game, piano practice, the birthday party, and all the steps of the science project – shop for materials, build the volcano, write and print out the description.  Add downtime -- go for ice cream with dad, chill and listen to music.  Most kids find this keeps their stress level down, since they know when everything will get done.  Most important, it teaches them to manage their time and be responsible about their commitments.

12. All kids need the experience of working for pay, which teaches them real responsibility in the real world.  Begin by paying your eight year old to do tasks you wouldn’t normally expect of him (washing the car, weeding the garden), then encourage him to expand to odd jobs in the neighborhood (walk the neighbor’s dog or offer snow shoveling service in the winter), move on to mother’s helper/babysitting jobs when it’s age appropriate, and finally take on after-school or summer jobs.  Few settings teach as much about responsibility as the world of working for pay.

13. Create a No-Blame Household.  We all, automatically, want to blame someone when things go wrong.  As if fixing blame prevents a recurrence of the problem, or absolves us of responsibility.  In reality, blaming makes everyone defensive, more inclined to watch their back -- and to attack -- than to make amends.  It's the #1 reason kids lie to their parents.  Worse yet, when we blame them, kids find all kinds of reasons it wasn't really their fault -- at least in their own minds -- so they're less likely to take responsibility and the problem is more likely to repeat.
Blame is the opposite of unconditional love.  So why do we do it?  To help us feel less out of control, and because we can't bear the suspicion that we also had some role, however small, in creating the situation. Next time you find yourself automatically beginning to blame someone, stop.  Instead, accept any responsibility you can – it’s good practice to overstate your responsibility – without beating yourself up.  (You're modeling, remember?) Then, just accept the situation. You can always come up with better solutions from a state of acceptance than a state of blame.

14.  Teach your kids that as Eleanor Roosevelt said, they not only have the right to be an individual, they have an obligation to be one.  Studies show that people who take responsibility in any given situation are people who see themselves as willing to be different and stand out.  That's the kind of kid you want to raise.

Sunday 29 April 2012

sesuai ngan tajuk main masak2

adoi ai nyah.. disebabkan teringin nak mkn roti jala, terpaksa la masak sendiri. smlm ku beli Tefal crep party compact, yg sebenarnye tuk buat pancake. tp krn innovation hheeh ku jadikan sbg tools tuk buat roti jala. menarik gitu. tak yah guna pan leper n tak yah buat byk kali. kalu yg ini skali buat dpt 4. Bernas tak:))
tp sbb first time buat hmmm tgk la hasilnye...tak berapa semenggah. roti jala ku menjadi sgt la comel saiznye...hahahah...uhuk rindu roti jala cafe pak ya kat opis.